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mother is mothering again and can't she just let me live my life for once?! ugh.
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lol must be nice to have a mother who cares. mine just sends passive aggressive emojis and forgets
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um, yeah, that's pretty okay actually. parents are human beings too and chill out.
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mother's just showing you she cares, . doesn't mean you can't live your life, it means she's
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u think this is the worst of it? wait til she starts calling u 5 times a day when u have kids of ur own
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Sounds like she's just getting a head start on being a nosy grandma
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mother is just trying to keep you alive, you ungrateful child. be thankful she cares enough to bother. ๐Ÿ˜’
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lmao sounds like someone's having a mom-ent of crisis
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actually, it sounds like your mom is showing she cares about you, which is literally what moms are supposed to do. that's what you're complaining about.
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Do you think this kind of support and concern is actually the problem, or are you using that as a cover for some deeper issues?
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yeah, i feel that and moms can be so overbearing sometimes. we just want some space to be ourselves. Ya know?
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are you surprised your mom cares about you? how else is she supposed to act?
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dude ur mom is lowkey a-twitter-celeb at this point what's next, a podcast about helicopter parenting?
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idk what's going on with the nostalgia for independence, but yeah, sure, good luck trying to
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Sounds like your mom is just trying to give you some quality material for therapy sessions later in life.
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idk, maybe she's just really into the absentee father program?
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I feel you, it's like they forget we're adults now.
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I feel you! My mom still calls me every hour to check in, it's like hello I'm 30 can I breathe?!
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what did you expect, you're still living at home rent-free
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don't you think that's a lil harsh? she's just looking out for you, ya know.
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Are you literally posting about this on social media while simultaneously talking about wanting to live your life independently?
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Having a mom who cares enough to get on your case means you're lucky, not cursed. Be grateful.
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idk, maybe she's just trying to mother you better than anyone else, good luck with that
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how many times you gonna post about it on here and how many times is mom actually gonna see it
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Sounds like you need to show your mom a little more respect. She's just trying to look out for you.
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haven't you learned to set boundaries by now?
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mother knows best. So let her do her thing. you'll thank her later!
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come on, your mom just cares about you. give her a break, she's trying her best.
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sounds like someone needs a nap and a juice box. chill, mom's just looking out for you.
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lmao sounds like you're getting some free therapy and a side of guilt
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maybe it's time to have an open and honest conversation about setting some boundaries? i'm sure she just wants the best for you, but it's important to find a balance.
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same to my mom too. I swear it's like we're 12 again. does anyone else get told what to do 10 times a day?
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same, my mom still thinks i'm 12 and need her to iron my socks
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same, but can we also acknowledge that's often a sign of her own stress/anxiety, not just her wanting to control you? might be worth having a calm convo with her about boundaries
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your mom is literally the real person who's been trying to help you live your best life this whole
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that's your mom, show some respect. she's looking out for you, even if it's annoying sometimes.
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did you even have a convo with her about boundaries or are you just assuming she'll magically know
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same ugh, can't we just tell her 'show us' when she asks 'how are you' and be done with it
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can't blame her for wanting to help, maybe if you communicated with her instead of getting frustrated she'd back off
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does that anger come from feeling unheard or entitled to have your own life, or is it a genuine plea for space?
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bro, your mom just cares about you. quit being so dramatic and appreciate that she's looking out for you.
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why do you hate your mom so much?
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you should appreciate your mother more. she just cares about you.
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same with my aunt, always trying to "help" me move at the last minute and then wondering why i'm stressed
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ikr, parents always gotta be on our case. can't they just let us be adults for once and make our own mistakes?
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ugh seriously, moms can be so overbearing sometimes. like we're adults, let us make our own mistakes for once! ๐Ÿ˜’
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Have you ever tried talking to her about how you feel? Communication is key in any relationship.
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Mothering is their love language, complaint is yours
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girl, that's just her job lol
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can't you just set boundaries then instead of venting on the internet?
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same trust me i'm basically a whole adult now can't she just chill the last thing i need is her
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I hear you, it can be really frustrating when parents try to control our lives. But try to remember they usually just want what's best, even if they go about it the wrong way.
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same, mom literally has a sixth sense for calling me when I'm in the middle of a critical debugging session
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Glad to see you're still embracing the full cycle of life, where we all simultaneously appreciate and resent our moms
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girl the answer is no, she's gonna mother you til the day she dies
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did you ever consider she just wants what's best for you? sometimes parents care more than we realize.
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bro your mom loves you, she's just trying to help, stop being dramatic
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lmfao did you literally just vent about your mom on here instead of having a real conversation with her???
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yeah mom's just trying to be a mom, don't be so ungrateful
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lol tell her to go mother someone else for a change
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yessss same girl same. try telling her that your boundaries aren't her grass that needs watering btw when are we
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are you kidding me that's her job just respect it
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sounds like you need a new mom, i'll lend you mine.
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same love, i feel you. it's hard to deal with the constant unsolicited advice and criticism, like
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girl, i feel you. just tell her you'll call her when you're 30 and living in another country.
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