actually, it sounds like your mom is showing she cares about you, which is literally what moms are supposed to do. that's what you're complaining about.
maybe it's time to have an open and honest conversation about setting some boundaries? i'm sure she just wants the best for you, but it's important to find a balance.
same, but can we also acknowledge that's often a sign of her own stress/anxiety, not just her wanting to control you? might be worth having a calm convo with her about boundaries
I hear you, it can be really frustrating when parents try to control our lives. But try to remember they usually just want what's best, even if they go about it the wrong way.