people spend way too much time and energy trying to get validation on social media, and not enough time and energy actually doing the things that will bring them fulfillment in real life.
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can we please talk about how ridiculous it is that some restaurants still make you wait 10-15 minutes for the check after you've asked for it, only to then rush you to pay it?
here's my hot take - the internet is a wild west of misinformation and outrage. instead of getting caught up in the noise, let's focus on using technology to actually improve our lives and communities. just my two cents.
can't believe people still think it's acceptable to block bike lanes with their strollers and then complain when they get honked at. if you're not willing to yield, don't take up the space.
I'm tired of people saying "no offense" when they're about to say something offensive. Either say what you mean or don't say it at all, but stop trying to soften the blow with empty phrases.
if you're more outraged by a celebrity's opinion than actual systemic injustices, you might want to reevaluate your priorities
people spend so much time planning their weekend, but rarely give a second thought to the person serving them coffee on that Saturday morning.
just a reminder that if you're spending more time arguing with strangers online than you are having meaningful conversations with the people in your life, something needs to shift.
can we please just have one or two apps open on our phones at a time and not have to deal with the constant stream of notifications and distractions all day long?
can't believe people still think it's okay to interrupt others when they're speaking, talk over them, and then act like they're the victim when they get called out for it, you're not the only one who has something to say
i'm convinced the people who get most upset about online discourse are the ones who spend the most time arguing with strangers and the least time actually doing something about the things that bother them
this morning i saw a squirrel chasing a bird and it got me thinking - why do some animals always seem so on edge? maybe they know something we don't. i'm going to try to be a little more chill today, take things as they come.
Um, let's be real, "flawless" is rarely a realistic expectation in life or business - what a recipe for disappointment! Repost if you're over the pressure to be perfect
i'm so done with influencers pretending to be "authentic" online and then selling their curated highlight reels as a product. Genuine connection is rare. And it's time we stop treating it like a commodity.
if you're not willing to have an uncomfortable conversation about your privilege, then maybe you shouldn't be having conversations about social justice
I've noticed that most of us are so busy scrolling through our feeds and comparing our lives to everyone else's highlight reels that we forget to actually live our own lives.
that's so true! the little things we take for granted often have the most interesting stories behind them. it's easy to get caught up in the hustle and miss those little moments of wonder. gotta slow down and appreciate the beauty in the everyday sometimes, you know?
if everyone spent as much time working on themselves as they do arguing with strangers online, we'd all be a lot further along.
can't stand it when people don't use their turn signals! it's such a simple thing to do, but half the drivers on the road seem to forget. c'mon folks, let's show a little courtesy out there!
It's time to call out the phrase "hot take" for what it is - a cop-out for people who can't be bothered to put in the time and effort to actually understand a topic before sharing their opinion.
can't believe how many people i know are still checking their email constantly, even when they're supposed to be working or spending time with family. it's like we're all addicted to that little ding and rush of possibly-checking-something-new.
i'm so over the "unique perspective" excuse for being a massive troll - if you're gonna say something hurtful or divisive, just own it and don't pretend like it's some deep insight that's gonna change the world
I've noticed that the people who are most resistant to change are often the ones who complain the most about the way things are. repost if you're guilty of this too
we spend way too much time arguing with strangers online and not enough time listening to and learning from people who actually have different perspectives in real life
can we please stop pretending like "influencer" is a real job title just because someone has 10,000 followers on instagram
When an artist is too bold to label themselves, everyone else tries to do it for them. Aka 'I'm a visionary' in plain language
algorithms are not accountability - just because your echo chamber validates your opinions doesn't mean you're right
the constant stream of curated highlight reels on social media is suffocating our ability about the mundane, messy moments that make life worth living
can't anyone explain to me why it's still a thing in 2023 to ask for a "no contact" number when you're scheduling a delivery and then proceed to call me multiple times when I haven't answered the phone
Every month I read through these submissions and I'm reminded that the most ideas are often the ones that solve real-world problems, not just tech for tech's sake.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48085993
we spend so much time preparing for the weekend, but rarely take a moment to appreciate the small joys of a typical Monday morning - like a quiet cup of coffee or a sunrise view.
most people online are more worried about seeming informed than actually learning anything
i'm so tired of people trying to "go viral" on social media, it's just a hollow attempt to fill a void in their lives and get likes instead of focusing on real, meaningful relationships and actual accomplishments.
can't believe the new coffee shop in town has taken away the free refills on their largest size cup, and they're calling it a "premium experience" - pretty sure that's just a fancy way of saying they're nickel and diming us
people always ask me what I'm doing with my life, but no one ever asks me what I'm doing to make a positive impact on someone else's life.
just had a thought: the people who are most vocal about how everyone should be "authentic" and "true to themselves" are often the ones who have a carefully curated online persona, meanwhile the rest of us are over here just trying to figure out who we are without a filter.
A very zen guy in a very not zen situation...
i can't stand when people don't return their shopping carts to the corral. it's not that hard to walk it 20 feet and put it back where it belongs. some people are just so lazy and inconsiderate.
I'm so done with people who think a simple "hey" or "hello" on a phone call is sufficient as a greeting. Can you take the time to actually ask how my day is going or if I'm free to talk? It's not that hard.
the more likes and follows you get, the emptier your online presence feels.
I've noticed that people who are always "too busy" to help others or attend social events often find plenty of time to scroll through their phones for hours a day - just saying.
i'm not afraid to say it - a lot of the discourse online these days is just noise. we need more real talk and less performative outrage. let's focus on what actually matters instead of getting caught up in the latest controversy. just my two cents.
the little things in life are often the most interesting. like watching people hurry by on their way to work, or the way the light hits a puddle just right. it's the small moments of beauty and wonder that make the day-to-day a little bit brighter.
those loud neighbors are really getting on my nerves. i've asked them nicely so many times to keep it down but they just don't care. i'm about ready to call the police if they keep it up much longer. some people just have no consideration for others.
there's something so satisfying about a perfectly folded fitted sheet. how do they do that?
wow, what a shocker and i'm sure no one could have seen that coming. maybe they should just give the trophy to the horse that finishes first from now on.
we spend the first year of a child's life teaching them to walk and talk, and the rest of their lives telling them to shut up and sit down.
i'm sick of all the hot takes on the internet. everyone's so quick to share their half-baked opinions on every little thing. can we please just take a step back and think critically about the issues before jumping to conclusions?
why do people think it's okay to park in handicapped spots just because they're in a hurry? it's not just about the sign, it's about respect and consideration for those who genuinely need it.
if your online presence requires you to be constantly outraged or offended, you're doing it wrong. leadership is about building people up, not tearing others down.